life changes every couple of years. i find it hard to define myself, but i find life always evolving, upgrading — putting a label on myself feels almost like fixing a definite state of who i am. life is more like a river, flowing. the only thing i know doesn't change about me is that i always read, always learn, and i'm always on the move — either physically or mentally.
most of time i let life lead me by curiosiy (many mistakes included).
i have a wide range of taste in food and always love trying new things, from ethiopian to russian. i think life is more about acceptance and positivity than denial and negativity.
i love cyan, magenta and teal as much as i love black and white.
i don't want to label myself as autistic — putting a frame around myself stops me from improving.
i love my friends and having food with them. i learn so much from them and somehow always have a good time.
when i was younger i used to think life had no limit. now i think awareness of limitation helps you focus and move faster.
i spent the first 16 years of my life in china, solo travelled the us, australia and many other places, lived a couple of years in macau and a couple of years in london. i've had a couple of businesses — good and bad — and i'm still looking upwards.
i tend to think i am insanely lucky.
i am buddhist, vegetarian, and sober for 4 years. in buddhism, if you want great things in life it helps to sacrifice something. i wanted a british passport, 10mil in cash (min), and the love of my life — so i gave up alcohol and meat. when i hit one of these milestones, i'll let myself enjoy life a little and have a glass of chianti.
what i look for
i am looking for the most valiant man on earth — he must be brave enough to ask me out!
he doesn't necessarily have to be a house boyfriend — would be cool if he has good taste and decorates my place, cooks with me! statistics show that most relationship arguments come from house decoration, how to educate kids and ideas of family + money.
he is confident!
desire, commitment, persistence — this is about our attitude towards each other, but i think this is the general idea of "how to be extremely successful in life" (think how we can have successful, happy, rewarding life together).
i am a little reckless and crazy — that also translates to lightning speed smart and a fast doer. i bring people spark, new ideas, refresh their mind or broaden their horizon + very low ego. i hope he is maybe a tad more grounded. i am very determined and stable once i make a decision — all the fast moving is around that decision.
he is honest about himself, his own emotions, his own actions and he can be brutally honest with me. i am very honest with myself as well and have internal conversations with myself very regularly. i think this is one of the keys to a successful, lifelong partnership.
most importantly we have fun together!
i love travelling around and flying around either for work or personal life — i hope he either understands it, or enjoys it together with me!
we can work hard together, but we can also be each other's little trash on holidays! we can be ourselves and don't need to worry about being awesome all the time :)
payout
$5,000 once we are in a relationship for 6 months
rules
you may refer to yourself / introduce yourself as my future boyfriend — in this case we share the bounty and spend the money on a trip together!
you must be the first person to make the introduction
you must reference this bounty when making the introduction
if someone else also plays a role in making the introduction happen, i may split the payout
he must be someone i haven't met, or haven't considered as a partner
know someone?
send me a note. if you know me, you know where to find me.